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The text in this web site is based on the experiences of the owner of the top professional introduction agency, The Executive Club of St James's ( www.thematchmaker.co.uk ) , Alun Jenkins who has spent the last 24 years giving intensive interviews to some of Britain's most successful professional women, at The Executive Club of St James's, an introduction agency for professionals only

I believe ladies who have not attained a high academic level and therefore are not "professionals" still put considerable importance on a mans appearance. Being tall, fit and handsome, this is still the standard for choosing a mate by many non-professional ladies.

However as women become more educated, physical appearance becomes far less of a priority as they look for other more important features, someone that can at least match their intellectual level, hopefully stronger and more successful than her. She will trade off looks to meet these other objectives. For successful women it is inconceivable that "tall handsome drop dead gorgeous sex on legs" but an uneducated waiter could ever be her long term partner.

I have a theory that a man can marry a women, screw one or divorce one but you can only fall in love with the child that lye's within every woman. She needs to trust you completely to enable her to show that child to you and if she does, you have partner that will follow you for life. It is not possible to love a mean or selfish person Love is about putting someone else's interest before your own.

For a professional woman to find a deep relationship her man needs to meet ALL of these basic criteria,

He MUST be intellectually stimulating someone she can look up to and respect. He must be more intelligent than her and STRONGER than her, otherwise she will be the decision maker and the stronger partner and I do not think any woman was designed to be happy in that role.

2. He must be genuinely unattached, no wife other girlfriends just bonking everone he can, or is still influenced by, or joined at the hip to his mother. He has to be free to form a deep committed relationship should that "magic" person come along. She needs to be put first.

3. He must have a broadly similar background culture manners ethics and generally be e heading in the same lifestyle direction

4. He must earn as much as her and own as much as her.

One of the problems however with professional women is that they tend to be too strong and independent for their own good and the features that make them successful at work are not features that a guy is seeking in his soulmate. This hard barrier is not the real person and if you have the patience to wait you will usually find a soft gentle caring woman beneath that hard exterior.

Make your woman feel like a princess all of the time and you shall feel the luckiest guy in the world. Be mean and/or selfish and you miss out on the best things in life and die a miserable sod and thank god you can't take it with you.

A tangible example of Love.

An express train was involved in a serious crash into The Mississippi about 1996 The husband found himself outside the carriage on the track. His wife however was trapped in the restaurant car and could not get out. Unfortunately the restaurant car caught fire so the husband went into the burning car and when realising that he could not free his wife sat down beside her, held her hand and died with her. That's Love, and when a woman knows you would do that for her without having to think long about it, she will show you a side to a relationship that most people die without ever experiencing.

DATING TIP Always call AT LEAST TWO DATING AGENCIES before making an appointment. Ask how much will it cost for you to join, how many introductions are you likely to receive and what happens if you only receive 5 or less introductions in a year? A good dating agency will seriously improve your chances of meeting your partner a poor dating agencies can leave you many thousands of pounds out of pocket with just a few poor introductions to show for it. – shop around. Chose an introduction agency wioth as musch care you would a cosmetic surgeon.

THOUGHT FOR THE DAY: Every married man can't understand why every single man is not rich!

updated on 24th September 2009

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